Domestic Violance (sp?)

You love'em. You hate'em. You can't live without'em.
Uh-huh. Okay.
Life isn't perfect, but neither are those who live in it. (Get over yourslef already). There's a lot to be said for finding your one true love and never loving the one you had from before just as much if at all, but you don't have to settle for the one who destroys you inside just because you need them. I don't care if you fear being broke or having to suck it up and go back home to mom and dad or live with some sort of relative or friend. I don't care if you think they forgive the day before by morning. What's the price to pay for staying with someone who broke your gong of sunshine with thier wickedness of thorns and serpants at your heals? Everything.
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You lose yourself for staying and continuing to be the shell of your former self. Ever seen PULSE? That's you on the inside after static electric ghosts steel your soul. All you wanna do is 'die', but you're too afraid ot do it. The only difference to that movie and yourself right now is that there is no way in shape or form that your pain will end once your certain amount of time's run out after so long with that person. You will continue to be the ashes that fall all over your nice rug. You'll be on the other side of the red tape, stuck between the glass window and the adhiesive glue, waiting for a panic mode to strike you flat and dead between the two.
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Here's why you deserve to have a life with someone or family/'family' who love you:
1) YOUR CHILDREN- you owe it to them to make sure nothing happens to them. The person you are with may not be a sexual preditor to them, but they don't need to see you sad every waking moment and learn to be that withdrawn belle of the ball who doesn't believe she's been visited by the fairy godmother. (am i crossing the road before i can get out of the kitchen?-if you know the movie you'd get it). Your children deserve a bright painless as possible future regaurdless if the abuser is their parent and your once knight in shining armor who killed all the spiders and snapped the traps on all those mice for you back in the day.
2) SELF WORTH- You are you before you met mr/s right. So shall you be decades after being together. You're not a nobody and you're not a servant. You're an equal who walks next to their mate, not behind. (i would have moved over for Rosa Parks to sit next to me just because I'm a nice person.)
3) SAFETY- Since when is it okay to be beaten by your spouse for their amusment? knuckle up and bareknuckle his/her ass if that's what it takes. Your a female. Your knuckles have a dipp between each knuckle which has potential for more damage-even if some of it is on yourself. A man's knuckles are generally like a hand sanitizer bottle. When men wore that one glove with silver half circles on it, what do you think it was for, besides enhancment? There is nothing wrong with self-defense, but some states and or counties believe the abuser is the one with no marks. I'M NOT PREMOTING YOU ELLIMINATE YOUR ABUSER IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM. Murder is murder and against the law-think wisely. Plan wisely; the best way to leave an abusive relationship is with as LITTLE or no violance at all... but if it takes knocking that person for a loop for as long as it takes to get you (and/or your children) out of an abusive relationship, than that's what it takes. You're not a hostage. Move it, Forest!
4) YOU DON'T DESERVE IT- Whether you're the man or woman in the relationship, abuse is abuse. Whether it's physical or mental, it's still abuse. You don't need it. You don't want it. It'll change you forever no matter how long you stay with that person, but you don't have to die from it.
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There's no reason for someone to abuse you or for you to abuse some one else. Domestic violence is a very high rate in the United States, but not all is known about because of threats from the abuser or pride. The sweetest person in the world could be abused by their family or friends and the rest of the world wouldn't know it because they don't tell. If you know someone who's been abused or is being abused, call 9-1-1. They cannot deny you taking your call, but they can also reffer you to another line or a website. Would you want someone walking by or looking you in the eye that you think cares about you outside that wall always saying 'too bad'? Hell no. Do it for that person you know has no way out or to give them the life they deserve.
Abuse is like being in a relationship where you're forced to have a one-sided open relationship.
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